My Aunt and Uncle stopoed to see us on their way to Nauvoo this week, and it was so fun to see them. I haven't seen them in forever, and they are such amazing people. I wish the visit could have been longer. But, we are grateful for any opportunity we have to see family because those opporutnities don't come around too often. Miss H warmed right up to them, and we were all sad to see them go.
I just wanted to let you all see how much fun my girls have together. They really do love each other, and I love seeing them playing together like this.
I was watching Oprah the other day and it was an episode about this Mom who left her little girl in the car for over eight hours, and this little girl died. When they first started talking about it my first thought was, How does a Mom do this? How do you forget your child for EIGHT HOURS? Well, this mom started telling her story and the first thing she says is that her day didn't start out routine. Her husband usually took her two girls to pre-school and day care, and she went to work because she had to be there earlier than their drop off times. On this particular morning her husband had a dentist appointment, and it was the mom's first day back to school (she was a vice-principal). She had to run a few errands before it was time to drop off her three year old at daycare, and by the time she was done with those errands her mindset was, "it's time to head to school." Her daugheter had fallen asleep in the backseat, which caused the mom to forget she was there. She went through the whole school day not even thinking about her child in the car. Until the end of the day when a co-worker came running in to tell her that she was in the car. The daughter hadn't survived the long day in the hot car...
Ok, my point is this. I read about this happening a lot over this past summer and my thought was always almost immediately one of disbelief. How can you forget your kids? They are around almost 24/7, and the center of almost every mom's world. As moms our lives revolve around our children, so, at least for me, there are very few moments that I'm not thinking about them.
Well, this mom went on to say that as a mom we all just get to busy. We try to do too much, be everything to people around us, and try to be the perfect moms. Our lives get so busy that simplest things slip our mind. How many of us get busy running errands, the kids fall asleep in the car and we leave them there for just a few moments to run the groceries inside, or leave them there when we run inside for a quick errand? Over the course of that show my thoughts about this mom and her mistake changed. She has to live with her mistake for the rest of her life. She was distracted, which is something we are guilty of. Her routine was broken for that day, and it changed her life. So...my question is what do you all think? Can you sympathize with her? Understand how it could happen? Think that it could happen to any one of us? I"m curious to know what you think.
Ok, my point is this. I read about this happening a lot over this past summer and my thought was always almost immediately one of disbelief. How can you forget your kids? They are around almost 24/7, and the center of almost every mom's world. As moms our lives revolve around our children, so, at least for me, there are very few moments that I'm not thinking about them.
Well, this mom went on to say that as a mom we all just get to busy. We try to do too much, be everything to people around us, and try to be the perfect moms. Our lives get so busy that simplest things slip our mind. How many of us get busy running errands, the kids fall asleep in the car and we leave them there for just a few moments to run the groceries inside, or leave them there when we run inside for a quick errand? Over the course of that show my thoughts about this mom and her mistake changed. She has to live with her mistake for the rest of her life. She was distracted, which is something we are guilty of. Her routine was broken for that day, and it changed her life. So...my question is what do you all think? Can you sympathize with her? Understand how it could happen? Think that it could happen to any one of us? I"m curious to know what you think.















